Be a reflection of what you'd like to receive. If you want love, give love. If you want the truth, be truthful. If you want respect, give respect. What you give out will return to you. Be the reason someone smiles today. No matter how educated, talented, rich, or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all. Integrity is everything. Being both soft and strong is a combination very few have mastered. Life is very complicated. Don't try to find answers because when you find answers life changes the questions.